Asyik cite pasal baby jer, kali ni nak citer pasal my dearest hubby lak. One thing yang kadang2 wat aku geram, nak tergelak pun ada gak is hubby and his instinct or naluri as he said. Hubby nye sense of direction memang zero, cam aku gak. I used to get lost, errr... confused actually, in a shopping mall (Arndale to be specific) when I was abroad. Masuk pintu lain nak keluar jumpa pintu lain. Terpaksa patah balik pusing2. Kalu masuk shopping complex besar2, still have to look at the directory to check the direction. That bad, huh! Especially Midvalley.
Back to hubby's naluri, dia ni kalu drive, aku tukang tunjuk jalan (kira terer skit la dari hubby), memang dia tak hafal. And what make it worse is, baca signboard pun tak mahu. Coz he said, " Abang ikut naluri." Chitt!! And ikut naluri has made him sesat this morning. After sending baby to Segambut and drop me off at my office, hubby terus pecut masuk hiway to his office. He was in a rush coz has a meeting this morning and he was already late. Then baru je aku duduk, he called.
" Yang, abang kat IKEA ni. Camne nak gi USJ?"
Mak aaiii!!! Ni sure kes tak ambik simpang gi Shah Alam / KLIA after the toll. Or did he took the wrong way to TTDI instead of going straight to NKVE? Hmmm....And I didn't have a clue where he was heading to. Couldn't help much, bengang la member. Hehe! Tu la sayang, lain kali baca signboard, jangan dok ikut naluri jer. Banyak kali dah ikut naluri jer sampai tah ke mana2 tah. Nak keluar balik dah sesat barat.
Where is he right now? Hmmmm..... I wonder. Called tak angkat. Hopefully he was at the office oredi. Worry gak ni. And he is definitely late for the meeting oredi.
Post Entry note: Aku berhati walang. Hubby sesat till Sg Buloh. Arrived at the office around 10am. Meeting oredi finished. He was scolded by the Boss (the new Boss from S'pore) and will be given a warning letter. I feel guilty. Why oh why didn't I give him the direction this morning? Dah tahu hubby jenis yang macam tu. Bersalahnya aku!!!!!!!!!!! I'm sorry, sayang. Aku nak keje pun tak de mood dah. Gundah gulana.
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On the way back home yesterday.
Yang, awak tak teringin ke nak keje kat luar negara? Saya dengar kat Qatar / Dubai banyak projek skrg ni. Kawan saya gi Qatar, lebat gak dapat.
Ada gak terpikir. Tapi abang pikir kalu abang keje jauh, apa abang akan dapat dan apa abang akan hilang.
Apa yang akan hilang?
Contohnya, kalu mak meninggal. Abang tak de kat sini. Bila abang balik, sure orang dah kebumikan. Abang tak sempat nak tengok.
Hmmm..... tu la kan.
Kalu ada family event, semua abang miss.
Ye la. Betul tu. Sayang rasa, kalu sayang pergi lak sebab apa?
Sebab duit. Abang dah tanya ramai member, diorang semua cakap sebab duit.
Tapi bestkan. Selain duit, leh tengok tempat orang, experience benda baru.
Tapi banyak benda miss.
Well, kesimpulannya kite tak leh dapat semua yang kita nak. We gain something, we loose something. Tepuk dada tanya selera. Kalu selera besar tapi perut kecik pun tak jadik gak. Tapi kalu perut besar selera kecik lak cam ne?
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Sesekali duduk tempat orang apa salahnya. Duit tu duit lah... kat sini pun kena hari dia, lebat jugak. Anyway, it's very true they can make good money over that side of the world.
My wife will have her Master's degrees done in the UK next year. I was contemplating of going over with the whole family, give the kids taste of studying kat negeri orang... and me? Cuti-cuti London le agaknya..
Wohoo! Bestnya! Then u will become househusband. hehe! Sanggup ke? But many Malaysians are like that. Wife sambung study, husband uruskan anak2. Tapi tak lama pun,kan? About a year. Just give your kids experience new surrounding. Tapi kalu sambung Phd will be another 3 yrs. Maybe u cud try looking for a job there.
Ikut hati sendiri, memang nak gi abroad. Tapi hubby cam tak berapa minat. Hehe!
*Tumpang lalu*
Gab,
Few of my frens jadi househusband bila ikut wife study kat UK la, Australia la...
Nampak gaya mcm best coz bole drive kete Merc or BMW, pastu join main golf..
Part r/tangga tetap isteri jugak yg uruskan!
Deni,
Sory to hear abt ur ke'bersalahan' heheh.. Udah minta ampun?
Sape yg moody lani - u or ur hubby?
masih gundah gulana ko? nok wat camne benda dah jadi..buat pengajaran di kemudian hari..
*shopping sakan ke kat KB? ko tok dae nok sopping?*
hari ni ok doh. keno maroh ko abe sebutir sbb lambat hari tu. tulah nok wak lagu mano, dok?
lik kb tok dae nok gi keda pon. ghumoh sedara pun tok habih pusing.
rad, ku dalam kebersalahan lagi ni. Ya Ampun, pak!
Nak bagi idea boley? Baguih punya!
Sebagai tanda tulus ikhlas meminta maaf & kebersedihan di atas ke'tersesat'an - why not belikan ur hubby map KL/Klang Valley?! Hahahahahah..
:)
dlt,
tangg hubby kena warning tu sungguh malang...abe id bersimpati sepenuhnya.
the dillema abt to go or not to go...has to be a joined decision. There need to be 'something' in it for everyone..
hubby- apa he will gain?
dlt - apa pulak bagian dlt?
anak2 - what abt them?
the intangible benefit, sometimes is more than the tangible one.
like education, exposure, character building for anak2 kita sebagai contoh.
bukan nak kata malaysia kekurangan...cuma kata org jauh perjalanan luas pandangan.
duit, sama je kut...bila tolak campur...itu dan ini.
urs abe id.
rad, sungguh bernas idea itu. tapi masalahnya, map kl ni cepat sgt outdated. sbb ada jer jalan baru. nak cari gak ni satu.
abe id @ arif (confuse mana satu nak guna), totally agree with u. maybe hubby tak pernah experience gi negara orang, belum pernah merasa, so tak tau peng'expose'an yang mana pada pengamatan saya good for ur kids and even u urself. tapi tak leh nak kata lebih2. saya rasa maybe coz now his father already passed away, left mak alone, as a son, i guess he takes it as his responsibility to make mak happy all the time and be at her side thru bad and good times. if ayah still around, maybe hubby will consider the other way round.
apa yg saya dapat kalu hubby keje jauh? hehe! sure la nak ikut n i cud be like kak lil. SAHM. hihi!
I guess between the two of us - boleh rosak bahasa! Peng'expose'an? That's new - kena masuk Kamus Dewan ni! Hardehahahahah
EH, SAHM tu ape ye? Are seriously considering?
rad, syyyyy..... jgn repot dewan bahasa. kena saman wa nanti.
SAHM - ibu yang dok kat rumah. hehe!
sian nyer sesat.. dpt warning letter plak tue..
lps ni kena la rajin2 baca signborad, takleh nak ikut kata naluri jerk..
seronoknyer kalau dapat g obersi.. teringin jugak..
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